I met Morgen a few years ago at the gym. She's a super strong, encouraging CrossFit coach with a fantastic smile, has one of those kids who makes being a parent seem delightful, and her husband Xan works at my favorite restaurant in Minneapolis. Morgen's got it all going on.
In May of 2013, Morgen & Xan decided to give up their car. She explains why quitting four wheels never felt like a downgrade.
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Let’s get down to business: What did you quit & why?
We quit our car when we realized that it was unnecessary for us to own one.
What did your life feel like before you gave up your car?
I had anxiety about the car. It was my main mode of transportation, and it was beginning to need more and more maintenance. My family was going through some big changes; we had a new baby and I had left my full-time corporate job out in the suburbs. Money was tight. If I were describing my life at that point, I would not have used the word “freedom”.
What ultimate pushed you to give up your car?
There were many converging factors that I think would have led us to it eventually, but for me the tipping point was a specific consumerist urge that I couldn’t ignore. When my daughter was about 9 months old I saw a picture of a bike that made my heart race. It was a Dutch bakfiets, a two wheeler with a long base and a wooden box up front to carry cargo and small children. To someone who had been cooped up with a baby all winter, it looked like freedom. It was fantastic.
It was also expensive and seemed impossible to get. I did a little math and realized it would pay for itself in no time if we used it for its intended purpose: as a car replacement. That was the moment that I first seriously considered going back to being car-free.
The hardest part about quitting?
Saying goodbye to the car was pretty easy, but cleaning it up, listing it on Craigslist, and working with the eventual buyer was a major pain. He didn’t realize that the state was going to tax the sale of the car, so he was thoroughly surprised when we went to transfer the title at the DVS office. The cranky friend he’d brought along for moral support insisted that we pay it ourselves. Hilarious.
Was quitting scary for you? Why or why not?
It wasn’t for me, but my husband Xan (who didn’t ever really even drive the thing) was a bit reluctant (although he says he’d make the same choice again). We both have previous experience being car-free and getting around mainly by bike. We already had bikes that we liked to ride, a couple of trailers, and the tools and ability to do our own maintenance. After I proposed the idea of ditching the car, we decided to give it a trial run: we’d park the car for a couple of months and just see what happened. It took a little while to adapt but overall the transition was easier than either of us expected it to be. We live in South Minneapolis; there’s a grocery store and a liquor store close enough to walk to if need be. That’s reassuring.
The other thing that helped was knowing that there were other families here already getting by without cars. It takes some creativity to adapt to the challenges that arise when you don’t have that security all the time, and I am inspired by the parents I know here who have been doing it for years with very little fanfare.
How did you feel immediately after you quit?
Amazing. Free. We handed off the keys, left the DVS office in the basement of the Midtown Exchange building, bought some burritos, and then walked home, one of us carrying the baby and the other carrying her car seat. Of course we got rained on.
How do you feel now? Any regrets?
No regrets for either of us.
What do you do when you need to haul stuff or venture a far distance?
We have both borrowed and rented cars for multi-day trips. Carpooling is always a great option when it’s available. For hauling stuff, we use bikes as much as we can. We have hauled fruit trees, Christmas trees, wood chips, an 11-year-old with a broken arm, broken-down bikes, camping supplies, a canoe, and thousands of pounds of groceries with our bikes. When something is too big or too far to haul, we check with any car-having friends to see if we can work something out. U-Haul is half a mile away from us, as a last resort.
You live in Minneapolis. How do you deal with those below zero or blizzard days?
You get used to being outside in the winter by simply doing it. You can get used to anything. The cold is not hard to ward off once you figure out how to dress for it. It takes a little while to get that down. Some people like really techy gear and some people wear wool sweaters and Sorels all winter. There are lots of resources out there to guide you, but ultimately it’s personal. People never believe me when I say I’m not cold, but you do become quite warm when you’re pedaling through a blizzard! Sometimes riding through the snow is really fun; sometimes it’s February and you’ve had it and you opt to take the bus or ride to the grocery store in your friend’s car. I would like to point out how much it sucked to dig or push an entire automobile out of a foot of snow or scrape an inch of ice off the windshield.
How do you deal with carting your daughter around without a car?
At first we pulled her around in a Burley trailer, which was fine but didn’t really have a lot of room for hauling other stuff. After we sold the car, we bought the bike I mentioned above, a Workcycles Cargo Long. She sits on the bench right in front and everything else is placed in the box. We can have a conversation. She loves it. There is a rain cover that keeps wind and precipitation off of the passenger and cargo. When it’s cold, we bundle her up, make sure no skin is exposed, and tuck a wool blanket around her. We’ve had very few complaints from her so far.
How has quitting changed your life?
I’m a happier person since I stopped driving everywhere. I learned that fresh air and exposure to the elements, year-round, is something that I need. It’s hard to connect with nature at all when you live in the city and spend six months of the year inside buildings, cars, and your head. Riding a bike is really grounding for me.
Advice to someone who’s thinking of giving up their car?
Spring is the perfect time to transition. You can ride all summer and fall, and by then you’ll be comfortable with your routine and ready to face winter weather.
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