Sometimes, when it comes to big, daunting decisions, I like to commit to the most expensive or important part first (ie buying a flight, picking a place for an event). Once you do that, everything else seems to fall into place. So, after looking at one million websites (but only one actual location), we signed a contract & put down a deposit on our weddin' venue! It's a boxing gym and it's going to be awesome. Let the real planning begin!